- Lose your memory! Never bring up a previous conversation in a present one. You want to make him feel anything you ever talked about is gone with the wind. If you are too quick to bring up old stuff then that means you think about him when you're not together.
- Leave a message after the beep. Beeeeeep! If you don't think you got it like that, skip this step. This step is where you start showing him that you have more things to do then wait for his phone calls/texts. You're going to limit how many phone calls you take from him. You should answer two a day at the most. And wait five minutes between each text you reply to. Don't seem too eager to talk to him. Remember, you're not trying to become the girl he talks to when he's bored.
- Surprise him. It's time to give him a surprise phone call now. Pick one day of each week where you want to call and talk to him. Preferably at night because that's when he's most likely to be relaxed and ready to talk.
- Be mysterious. Never have a deep conversation with him unless YOU initiate it. Never let the conversation drift towards you and what's going on in your personal life.
- Topics that are off limits: What you did throughout the day, who you're dating, and whether or not you like him. Give him back indirect answers. For example, he asks you what you did today. You'd reply back with something like a little of this a little of that. That's not telling a lie or anything. Because if you really did nothing or was bored he doesn't need to know!
- Be cool. Play with him like a friend. Joke around. No guy likes a girl that just wants to cuddle and kiss all day. He wants one that he can have fun with too! So, loosen up.
- Don't forget the rules! That's an important thing to remember. No matter how close or lovey dovey you guys get, stick with the steps. If you don't you'll eventually fall for him and probably attach. You always wanna have a little spiciness in you. Keeps the guys wanting you.
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